Not one of us is ordinary. At least not in our own stories. We are all unique and although there may be similarities... we are all driven by reasons...and they are generally related to love and pain.
Love can take your breath away...in joyous moments or in the loss of it...The pain of lost love, whether it is yourself that is lost or another...
Love is a tricky little bugger, and we do our darndest to hang on to it in all forms...so why is it so tricky to hold onto, so hard to keep it from slipping away when we have it? Or even to find it at all? It seems like such a small percentage can hang on...What makes it possible?
"You see it all around you
Good lovin' gone bad
and usually it's too late when you realize what you had
And my mind goes back to a girl I left some years ago
Who told me
Just hold on loosely
But don't let go
If you cling too tightly
You're gonna lose control" 38 Special
Hold on loosely. It sounds so easy...and it's quite possibly the hardest thing to do...Because we want it sooo badly! We want to be loved, adored and cherished.
When are we going to look within? This is where you will fall in love...and learn to love another...this is where you will teach another...this is where you will become beautiful. Where you become strong, desired, alluring.
You need to love yourself. Adore and cherish YOU.